how to increase my site alexa ,i have used alexa tool bar but it is not helping what should i do........

You can increase alexa rank by installing Alexa toolbar and visiting it many a times a day so as to increase alexa traffic as well as by Alexa widgets.
Alexa stats are not that accurate and hence I would advice you not to lose your sleep over something that is not accurate.

Had I been you, I woudn't have bothered about alexa. Try concentrating on SERPs rather.

I think social media is best way to increase alexa rank of your website.
Am i right?

If your site have good traffic  and your site  and good page view,good bounce rate then your alexa will increase automatically

Here are some tips that will help you to increase your site Alexa.
1. Install Alexa Toolbar.
2. Add Alexa Rank Widget To Your Website.
3. Get Reviewed On Alexa.
4. Create Alexa Toolbar.
5. Write Reviews About Alexa.
6. Socialize Your Website

Do continuous SEO activities to increase your alexa ranking, this worked for me.

Since I was new to Alexa, I was not pretty much sure about the site and how the tool bar would help me increase my alexa rank. I guess it is all about increasing the traffic through the toolbar and other widgets of Alexa. By the way, are you suggesting SERP is better than Alexa?

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If your site has good traffic and unique content than alexa rank increase automatically.

hi
its nothing to do with tool bar,increase your site visibility on search engine, and increase traffic by link building, alexa ranking improve with improve in traffic.

You need stable traffic from Search Engines and Social Sites.

If you get a few positive reviews for your blog on alexa.com then it will help in improving your alexa rank.